Cute Pictures of Kittens

Thursday, September 15, 2016

Wonder why your boss hired u?
Coz u r the expert

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Glamumous!: 101 Household Tips for Every Room in your Home

Glamumous!: 101 Household Tips for Every Room in your Home: I love to discover tips which make housework easier! From time-saving tricks to finding new and ingenious uses for old things, the Interne...

Thursday, December 12, 2013

big bad wolf book fair

Went to MIECC for the big bad wolf bookfair last nite. Alhamdulillah it was not that packed. Managae to grab a few books after much restraining of the impulse of buying.
My son looked exhausted at the end of the buying session. He suddenly turned pale and bluish. M really worried and will be putting him up for investigations soon. Hopefully it is nothing

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

To blog or not to blog???

Aye aye everyone.
Surprised of my come back?
It is merely becoz my dotter had just started blogging today
So being a caring and anxious mom of an exploratory teenager, of course i'd hv to keep tract of her activities kekekeke. M not spying on her, just looking after her only.
Love u darlingsz

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Hibernating

Gosh, i have been hibernating for too long from this site. I used to be very active blogging during my Yahoo 360's years, but since it was disable... i tend to reduce my number of blogging... basically just because i m lazy to do so.

I need to find a purpose in blogging so that i will be more determined to do so, and will adhere to it i hope.

As for now, life have been hectic and unstable for me so blogging is the last thing in my mind. Anyway, this can be a kick start again i hope

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Did I Marry The Right Person

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
This is a very good article.

Those who are still single may learn something from here.
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage...

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, could drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.


Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go." So, spent your lifetime finding out the loveable things about your spouse so that you could LOVE your spouse everyday in every way in an EVERLASTING marriage. That is why granpa's love to your granma seems so PURE.

Remember, you are with the "RIGHT" person. If not, you wouldn't have wanted to marry your spouse in the first place.